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I wonder why some people are so mean.
There are just some people who think it’s fine to say mean things about you. It hurts because these things were said through a joke. Everybody who heard it, laughed. What hurts the most is that the person who said it is supposedly your friend. There is a difference between PERSONALLY calling you out for your “flaw” (weight, height, color, gender, etc) and repeatedly joking about it in a room FULL OF PEOPLE.
I experienced this firsthand. At first, it was okay. I even went along with it but you know, there are days where we are just so sensitive that even an unintentional joke could make us burst. It got too much, I couldn’t handle it anymore. They made me feel like I should feel sorry for being simply me.
There even came a time where I’ll say those mean things loudly to myself so I won’t hear it from them. So that when they bully me, it won’t hurt as much.
I thought bullying only happens in elementary or high school. I thought it goes away as we grow up but I’m wrong. It even got worst. Worst because even a professional person does it. It doesn’t matter how educated we are if our actions show the opposite. Do people realize that? I wonder.