Why are people mean?

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I wonder why some people are so mean.

There are just some people who think it’s fine to say mean things about you.  It hurts because these things were said through a joke. Everybody who heard it, laughed. What hurts the most is that the person who said it is supposedly your friend. There is a difference between PERSONALLY calling you out for your “flaw” (weight, height, color, gender, etc) and repeatedly joking about it in a room FULL OF PEOPLE.

I experienced this firsthand. At first, it was okay. I even went along with it but you know, there are days where we are just so sensitive that even an unintentional joke could make us burst. It got too much, I couldn’t handle it anymore. They made me feel like  I should feel sorry for being simply me.

There even came a time where I’ll say those mean things loudly to myself so I won’t hear it from them. So that when they bully me, it won’t hurt as much.

I thought bullying only happens in elementary or high school. I thought it goes away as we grow up but I’m wrong. It even got worst. Worst because even a professional person does it. It doesn’t matter how educated we are if our actions show the opposite. Do people realize that? I wonder.

Birthday & Christmas 2016 wishlist

Birthday & Christmas 2016 wishlist

Mini adventure

Mini adventure

 

H M white chiffon top
415 PHP – hm.com

Frame Denim blue skinny jeans
7,405 PHP – net-a-porter.com

Superga laced shoes
4,865 PHP – shopbop.com

Herschel Supply Co rucksack bag
3,020 PHP – ebags.com

Michael Kors quartz movement watch
11,625 PHP – net-a-porter.com

COLAB accessory
8,420 PHP – theiconic.com.au

Gottex hat
2,605 PHP – onekingslane.com

Summer stroll

Summer stroll

H M tee shirt
525 PHP – hm.com

ASOS jean shorts
2,365 PHP – asos.com

Sperry canvas shoes
2,780 PHP – housershoes.com

Ray-Ban wayfarer sunglasses
11,140 PHP – johnlewis.com

Herschel Supply Co men s backpack
4,170 PHP – urbanoutfitters.com

Adventure awaits!!

Adventure awaits!!

 


H M short sleeve v neck tee
545 PHP – hm.com

Topshop boyfriend fit jeans
1,500 PHP – topshop.com

Sperry Top-Sider laced up shoes
950 PHP – nordstromrack.com

Herschel Supply Co pocket backpack
3,745 PHP – selfridges.com

Ray-Ban adjustable lens glasses
11,575 PHP – johnlewis.com

INSTAX MINI BY FUJIFILM White Instax Mini 8 Camera
3,340 PHP – nordstromrack.com

What’s in my bag? (Actual photos) 

I’ve always been gaga about every What’s in my bag posts, may it be a blog or a video. I have been participating with the tag but I’ve always posted it through polyvore.(refer to my previous posts)

Now that I have a free time, I thought, why not post the actual pictures of the things that I have in my bag? So here it is guys, my actual What’s in my bag tag. Enjoy! 😊  
Here’s the bag that I’m currently using. It is from Parfois. I love that it somehow reminds me of Celine Trapeze and since I can’t afford one, this will do.  

 My beauty essentials: Maybelline satin smooth foundation and lip&cheek tint from The FaceShop. These are just the basic but if I feel like ‘pa-girly’, I have my lipsticks to the rescue. 
  Wet and wild “Wine Room”, Mac “pink plaid” and Nyx “Natural”. 

  Of course we need to have fresh breath like always!! Beauty is worthless if you have bad breath. 😁

  And a little (or maybe more) spritz won’t hurt nobody. 😅 Pink Chiffon from bath and body works. 

  To protect our lovely eyes from the blaring Mr. Sun, Rayban Wayfarer. 

  To store my hard earned money (hahaha) i have my Kate Spade Charles street fabric lacey wallet. My darling! 😍

  Since I am that person who has all the cards from every store (okay maybe that’s a little exaggerated but still), I also carry my other darling, Michael Kors flap card case.

That’s all that I have in my bag. I hope you enjoyed it coz I did! 🙊 Now, I tag all of you who is also obsessed with the tag. 

Xoxo, 

Mancey 💋